dimanche 10 février 2008

To have friends

Friends are rare , Friendship nowadays don't exist, are these statements true or false?

FALSE
Friendhsip exists but in order to have friends, here are the tips :
- Say to the critic No even when you say that your intention is good, you just want that your friend improve. The worst thing in the world is to critic and especially critic your friend. They are many manners to let the other part understand what you want and to react.
NO CRITIC
- Don't interpret reactions of your friends as against you, every reaction depends of the state of mind. So don't act rapidly after an action of your friend, he can be furious, he can have a problem or he can have just experienced a difficult situation.Also be attentive to his physionomy, if he walks correctly, if his gestures are coordinated. Unless, don't take into consideration what he says.
REACTION = STATE OF MIND+PHYSIONOMY
- To have friends, be prepared to give time, help without sytematically to receive. The law of reciprocity destroys the relations, give love love and love without conditions, be sure you will receive a great gift in a moment you don't expect to.
NO TO RECIPROCITY

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